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Finding Life's Purpose

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Oliver Mitchell

Entrepreneur, Innovator, Tech Enthusiast, Startup Advocate, Investing in the Future, Building Dreams..

AUG 14, 2024

Waking up every day with a strong sense of direction changes everything. When values, passions, and actions align, life feels meaningful. Instead of waiting for purpose to appear, take intentional steps to uncover what truly resonates.
Finding Life's Purpose

Steps:

Reverse Engineer Fulfillment

Identify a moment when everything felt right. Deconstruct the experience—what elements made it fulfilling? Recreate those conditions intentionally.

Audit Your Energy

Track daily activities for a week, noting what drains and what energizes. Increase time spent on what naturally fuels motivation.

Experiment with Micro-Purposes

Instead of searching for a single grand purpose, try small, meaningful projects for 30 days each. Analyze which ones feel most aligned.

Apply the "Five-Year Filter"

Before committing to any major path, ask: “Would I still find this fulfilling in five years?” If uncertain, refine the direction.

Simulate Different Lives

Imagine switching to another profession or lifestyle for a month. What emotions surface? Resistance or excitement? Use that data for decision-making.

Apply the "Deathbed Perspective"

Fast-forward to 80 years old. What regrets stand out? Work backward to eliminate them now.

Detach from Past Labels

Many struggle to find purpose because they cling to outdated self-definitions. List five past identities and actively discard those that no longer fit.

Refine, Don’t Search

Purpose isn’t discovered fully formed—it’s sculpted. Pick a direction, start moving, and adjust based on real-world feedback.

Opportunity costs:

  • Time Spent Experimenting: Instead of following a traditional or easy path, you’ll need to explore different options, which takes time and effort.
  • Risking Failure: Testing different paths means some will lead nowhere. You must accept setbacks as part of the process.
  • Challenging Your Beliefs: Finding purpose requires questioning long-held assumptions about success, happiness, and identity.
  • Wellness:

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    Notes:

    Purpose Changes Over Time – No need to stress about locking in one perfect path. What feels right now might evolve, and that’s normal.

    Thinking Won’t Solve Everything – Overanalyzing keeps things stuck in your head. Try stuff, see what clicks, and adjust from there.

    Passion Comes From Doing – Most people don’t start out passionate—they get good at something, and then the passion grows.

    Comfort Zones Are Sneaky – Feeling “fine” can keep you from discovering something amazing. A little discomfort = growth.

    Waiting for Approval? Don’t. – If you need everyone to agree before you start, you’ll be waiting forever. Trust your gut.

    Limits Can Be a Shortcut – Fewer options = clearer decisions. Constraints force creativity and focus.

    Wrong Paths Teach Faster Than No Path – Taking a step in any direction gives real feedback. Sitting still just gives more questions.

    You’re More Than a Job Title – Purpose isn’t just about work. Who you are outside of it matters too.

    Let Go of Old Beliefs – Sometimes, the biggest block is an outdated idea of what success or purpose “should” look like.

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